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I offer solution-focused coaching and guidance to individuals, relationships, friendships, and families of diverse identities and constellations.

You do not have to go through this journey alone. I will work with you to create a roadmap for living your best, most healed life. Let’s get you there together!

I utilize diverse and effective treatment modalities including Cognitive Behavioral interventions, Mind-Body Therapies, Mindfulness, Life Coaching, Buddhist Psychology, Relationship Counseling, Feminist Psychology, Psychodynamic Therapy, Trauma Therapy, Grief Therapies, Spiritual (but not religious) Counseling, Queer Theology, Mindfulness, and Interpersonal Psychotherapy, and more.

I provide a warm and supportive therapeutic relationship for individuals and relationships from all backgrounds to address these and other topics:

  • Feeling stuck
  • Relationship issues
  • Feeling sad
  • Anxiety
  • Stress
  • Feeling depleted
  • Feeling unfulfilled
  • Work and career
  • Life transitions
  • Family dynamics
  • Relationship challenges
  • Mood
  • Body image
  • Religious injury
  • Behavioral challenges
  • Parenting
  • Surviving trauma
  • Addictions/compulsions
  • Exploring sexuality
  • Exploring Polyamory/Non Monogamy
  • Gender Affirmation
  • LGBTQAI2+ topics and coming out support
  • Kink/BDSM/Leather/Fetish
  • Alt Relationships
  • Developing self-care
  • Blended family challenges
  • Premarital counseling
  • Divorce or separation
  • Grief and Bereavement
  • Life transitions
  • ….and more

Open the Door to Transformation Today!

The path to a solution-focused roadmap begins with a single step—a step towards embracing your innate potential for healing and growth. Join us in this sacred space of discovery, where the fusion of counseling, coaching, Altness, and Queerness opens doors to a life of profound purpose and fulfillment.

Rev. Deb is a deep and introspective thinker, a serious spiritual seeker, and a brilliant counselor. Anyone who has the good fortune to be her counseling client will find themselves better as a result.

Coach Nathan Lake